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Mom Allegedly Ejects Girls, Drives Off

By JIM FITZGERALD
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WHITE PLAINS, N.Y. (April 21) - Usually, it's an empty threat: "If you kids don't stop fighting, I'm going to stop this car right now and leave you here!"
But a mother from an upper-crust New York suburb went through with it, ordering her battling 10- and 12-year-old daughters out of her car in White Plains' business district and driving off, police said Tuesday.
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Madlyn Primoff, 45, a partner in a Manhattan law firm, pleaded not guilty Monday to a charge of endangering a child. A temporary order of protection was issued, barring her from contact with the children, who were physically unharmed.
Primoff's lawyer, Vincent Briccetti, would not comment Tuesday on details of the case. But he said, "Madlyn is a great mother connected with a great family, and she is grateful for the outpouring of support from friends and family."
There wasn't much support from strangers, however. Mothers interviewed near the scene said they couldn't imagine doing what Primoff did, though some understood the urge.
Iris Gorodess, 49, of Mahopac, who has four children ranging from 10 to 19 years old, said she sympathized with Primoff's actions, right up to the point where she pulled away.
"I used to pull over and make the kids change seats. Also, I make sure the kids have their iPods and their games. And I have a minivan, so they're not up my neck all the time.
"But I can't see pulling away. That has to be too scary for the children."
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A Preventable Crime? Prosecutors asked that a judge lock up Isaiah M.K. Kalebu, who was out on bail pending trial for charges he threatened to kill his mother, after a suspicious fire at his aunt's house killed two people. Six days later, on July 19, authorities say Kalebu stabbed a 39-year-old woman to death. For that alleged crime, a judge set the bail at $10 million on July 25.
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White Plains police said Primoff ordered the arguing girls out of the car Sunday evening as they were driving home. She left them at Post Road and South Broadway, an area of shops and offices 3 miles from their home, then drove off, the police report said.
The report does not say whether the girls had cell phones.
Police would not say if Primoff ever returned to look for the girls, but they said, without explaining how, that the 12-year-old eventually caught up with the mother. The 10-year-old was found by a "Good Samaritan" on the street, upset and emotional about losing her mother, police said.
The girl gave police her mother's name and their address in well-to-do Scarsdale, and they asked Scarsdale police to check Primoff's $2 million house. Shortly afterward, Primoff called Scarsdale police from home to say the 10-year-old was missing, said Scarsdale Detective Lt. Bryant Clark.
He directed her to White Plains police headquarters, where she was arrested.
Dr. Richard Gersh, director of psychiatric services at the Jewish Board of Family and Children's Services in Manhattan, said Primoff's behavior was not appropriate.
"It is a traumatic situation for a child to be abandoned by a parent like that. You can imagine what emotional issues might arise," he said.
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InkedDreams

12:29 AMMay 22 2009

Llalonzo2 Yeah i am am so tired of hearing about children raped and murder because of the type of mentality you have towards kids and parenting.

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InkedDreams

12:27 AMMay 22 2009

LillieBug And i hope they remind you that she went to jail and has lost her kids if you are going to do something as jerky as that! You dont deserve the kids you have if you would treat them like that!

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Gaumishang

10:52 PMMay 22 2009

Must be a great F-ing lawyer - leave the defendants to fend for themselves. A-HOLE.

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LillieBug

10:42 PMMay 22 2009

Oh my gosh! How many times have I threatened my 12 and 14 yr old daughters with the same thing. I totally can relate to her as thousands of us can. I'll just remind them next time of this woman who did what I have treatened and maybe that will stop them.

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xcarlene70x

10:15 PMMay 22 2009

to TIAKBEARS I so agree with you. we must be close becasue we have the same area code.....texas..... I see patients all the time that have no right to have kids. I think THIS Mom though just got sick of it and wanted to show them ..You don' like what I have to say then fine,,,your on your own........been there but never did That............

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Llalonzo2

08:51 PMMay 22 2009

I'm so tired of hearing poor kids they have it so hard. The state should just back off and let a parent be a parent things will be different. We are not allowed to yell, spank or even threaten our children without being send to jail. Why is it that when I was growing up our parents were able to yell, spank, slap, mainly beat the lights out of us and made sure we grew up respecting our elders. Now in days kids expect the elders to respect them. Please if they will give us one day to beat these kids things would be different. and for the ones that thing wrong. What I mean by beating is getting them and spanking that rear until we are respected. taking phones, computers, tv, etc. does not work because if it did we would not be in this situation.

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RachelFriend87

07:48 PMMay 21 2009

If her kids would have been abducted and murdered, then I bet you would all be saying a parent should never leave thier kids like that...

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Kesler103

03:04 PMApr 28 2009

The article says she left them 3 miles from their upscale home in an upscale neighborhood. At age 10 I could have found my way home. I really don't think these children were in danger, and after raising 3 I can completely understand her actions. I also bet we haven't heard the whole story

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IUOE 399

02:17 PMApr 28 2009

When we were kids, our parents didn't really threaten to throw us out of the car, but they did threaten to pull the car over and beat our rear ends & we knew that if we didn't listen, they COULD pull over & they wouldn't get arrested for child abuse for tanning our back sides. I remember one time my cousin & I wouldn't stop giggling and being loud on a 2 hour trip & my dad finally said if we didn't shut up he was going to pull over & throw us in the trunk!! He never really would've done that, but it scared us enough to make us shut up! This Mom had a temporary lapse in good judgment. I think mandatory family counseling is in order & nothing more. Get the girls a professional prospective on getting along with one another & behaving because fighting in a car while someone is trying to drive can be distracting and dangerous. Give the mom some professional help on how to better handle the girls when they do fight. I sure don't judge this mom.

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TIAKBEARS

01:30 PMApr 28 2009

For anyone reading this & has thoughts of wanting to give up their child-unborn or already here(3yrs.old& younger)then please get a hold of my husband & I(we have 2 grown children already ages 19&20)they'd like for us to adopt also;they still live at home and we're all ready to share our home,lives,&love with another child or2.We're not an old couple,we just started our family at a young age.Please DON'Tdo anything you may live to regret and get a hold of us and speak to us,meet us(have a background check run if you want)first before deciding anything that will affect you & your childs future.DON'T think for a second that you can get away with murder-read all the many recent stories of child deaths related to parents and they're ALWAYS caught!Do the right thing.MY email is:tiakbears@aol.com my cell# 817-781-1421 sincerly Netasha.Whatever your reasons is your business i can respect that.Just want you to know YOU DO have an alternative option to commiting a horific crime that will make y...

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Usually, it\'s an empty threat: If you kids don\'t stop fighting, I\'m going to stop this car right now and leave you here! But a mother from an upper-crust New York suburb went through with it, ordering her battling 10- and 12-year-old daughters out of her car in White Plains\' business district and driving off, police said Tuesday.