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Man Takes Wife's Last Name After Suing

AP
Posted: 2008-05-06 11:53:28
Filed Under: Nation News
LOS ANGELES (May 6) - Michael Buday promised his bride he would take her last name so her father's family name could carry on.

But because California state agencies have no simple way for a man to take his wife's surname, Buday soon realized he would have to pay extra - or file a lawsuit - to fulfill his promise to his wife, Diana Bijon.

Michael and Diana Bijon
Jill Serjeant, Reuters

Michael Buday, now Michael Bijon, and his wife Diana pose with their marriage license Monday. It took two years for Michael to be able to take his wife's last name.

With the backing of the American Civil Liberties Union, the Marina del Rey couple sued to change the way the state issues marriage and driver's licenses, because it cost more for him to take her name, than for her to take his.

Buday picked up a driver's license with his new name Monday, two years after they filed a sex discrimination lawsuit against the state.

For Buday to take his wife's name, he would have to pay court fees of more than $300, advertise his plans in newspaper for four weeks and get judicial approval.

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For Bijon to take her husband's name, she would have had to pay a county application fee that ranges from $50 to $90.

"I never imagined the state would make it so difficult," said Buday, who was married in 2005. "It was a symbolic gesture, but it's also very real for us. It's about what our children will be named, about starting a new family on our own terms. For us, it was very traditional."

According to the settlement agreement, the state Department of Motor Vehicle and Department of Health Services changed their policies and forms to allow husbands, wives and domestic partners to take each other's last names.

"What's in a name is the message that a marriage is a union between equals," said Mark Rosenbaum, legal director for the ACLU of Southern California. "California now has a marriage license for the 21st century, not the 15th century."

"When we got married, the law basically said, 'Don't be silly, only a woman can change her name when she gets married.' I'm proud to be part of changing that," Diana Bijon said.

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esox4569 12:54:49 AM May 10 2008

When I got married I took my wife's last name. I liked her fathers middle name so I added it to mine too. Then her brother and I traded first names. But her cousin had a first name I liked better so I traded him. But before that, I had switched it to her grandfathers first name. Her dad made me mad so I dropped his middle name and added her great grandfathers first name to my middle name. I didn't sound so good so I switched my real first name for her grand fathers middle name. Her second cousin had a great first name so I added it to my middle name. By the time I got done I really didn't know who the hell I was. It turned out that I was my own grandpa.

aleighcat 12:13:35 AM May 10 2008

Personally speaking, I like being traditional. Just because I took my husband's last name in no way means that I gave up my identity. A name doesn't define who I am, my actions as a human being do. However...if this is what the couple wanted, I say good for them. It's ridiculous that it costs more and is harder to obtain for the men and I'm glad that he called them on sex discrimination charges. More power to them, and I hope that they have a long and prosperous marriage. I think it was a very sweet gesture on his part, not many men would do this.

marijajuric101 11:44:58 PM May 09 2008

haha

annedyth 10:21:32 PM May 09 2008

Good for the couple, and i'm glad too!

mrmcfartie 06:32:59 PM May 09 2008

Oh honey please... Oh I'll wear the panties you grab the STRAP

mrmcfartie 06:31:48 PM May 09 2008

The family tree is now a LIE. lol

mrmcfartie 06:31:33 PM May 09 2008

He is wearing pink panties

mrmcfartie 06:31:13 PM May 09 2008

I hear she is her own grandma

sprklpinkmagic77 04:06:03 PM May 09 2008

There should be nothing wrong with a woman keeping her name after marriage or the husband taking hers. Many times a female is the last member of a family surname. In honor of her father she should be able to continue the family name if she wishes.

kgraham242 02:37:42 PM May 09 2008

i think that this a great show of equality between men and women

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